Monday, October 22, 2012

Onto a New Beginning

It's strange thinking that this will be the last time I post here...
This blog has been such an incredible part of my life over the last couple years!
& YOU have been such an incredible part of my journey!
As sad as it is, it's time to move on.
One chapter/book is ending, in order for another to begin.

If you'd like to continue on with me, I'll be here over here:
---->She Shall Thrive<----
Now that I'm a Mama and learning how to live within that role, I feel called to start a new chapter per say, in the blogging world.
I wont be closing this blog... it'll always be here. But there wont be any more words or pictures added...

For family and friends who've followed in order to get a little glimpse into our lives, I'll be sharing pictures of Hunter & Emerson and the bits of day to day fun that we have on Facebook more often now. {linking Instagram and Facebook so you'll get a full dose of babies if you so desire}

I love you all and am so grateful to have been able to share this HappyWife journey with you!!!

again, if you feel like following me into this next chapter, click the "She Shall Thrive" link above and it'll take you there!


Wednesday, September 12, 2012


Alexandra Joy from Pink&Honey

It's Wednesday. Middle of the week, tired and need to keep going kind of day for many of you. Wether you are working in an office or working at home, Wednesdays are that day where we begin to get burnt out and need to find some type of push to move us forward into that happy land of weekend!
In hopes of bringing a bit of pretty and pleasant to your day, I thought I'd introduce you to a friend of mine who happens to be the Queen of making things beautiful!

Instead of me telling you all about who that gorgeous lady is {above}, why don't you read through our little conversation...
And enjoy the pictures!

Alright Love, tell us a little bit about yourself:
Hello friends and readers of Happy Wife. My name is Alexandra Joy and I'm a creative at heart. I'm happiest wearing a dress, sipping good coffee and feeling the sun on my face. I met the lovely Amber Dawn while living in Texas and attending Bible school together, and am thrilled to share some thoughts today about my life and business, Pink&Honey. Thanks for reading! 

Pink & Honey is:
Pink&Honey is my event styling business. We specialize in custom styling for events and weddings, as well as for photo shoots and editorials. We aim to infuse personal and creative touches in every last detail of an event or project. Designing, creating, decorating- it's all about visual interest and putting together an amazing experience for a viewer or guest. 

Check it out!

What's it like having your own business?
There are so many wonderful and challenging things about having a business. I love the flexibility, collaborating with the best clients, pursuing work that excites me, getting to be creative and inspired every day. However, I often miss working with a team. Wedding days are the best because I work with the most amazing assistants. I love being a boss. :) As the owner, you are responsible for every last piece of the business- even areas that don't interest you. It's been an exciting road so far, and when I'm working with beautiful flowers, or hand making a table runner, or choosing a color palette, I'm reminded of why this is worth the challenges. 

All your work is so beautiful! Where do you gain inspiration from?
Aw, thanks! Staying inspired is key to the success of a stylist's role in order to offer clients the most unique and interesting ideas. I look for inspiration everyday, everywhere. I look to nature, food, flowers, color schemes, fabric and fashion. If I'm feeling uninspired, I go for a walk, go to boutiques and explore their merchandising, or sometimes, I simply observe people. For me, it's about seeking out an experience, as opposed to surfing the web.

What's your happiest moment been so far, since starting Pink & Honey?
It's the most amazing feeling seeing a vision come together on a wedding day. There is so much work that happens before that big day, it's incredibly satisfying to see each piece come together to create the cohesive, beautiful vision I'd imagined.  

Sight, sound, thought, smell and taste: What are your favorites? 
1. Favorite Place - My favorite place is somewhere where I'm enjoying a beautiful dining experience with my husband. 
2. Favorite Song - Hmm, I don't really have one. :) I'm into an artist named Zee Avi right now. So mellow and sweet. 
3. Favorite Book - Can't get enough of Kinfolk Magazine. The writing and photography is beautiful. I often cry. 
4. Favorite Scent - Chanel Chance perfume. My mom gave it to me as a gift to wear on my wedding day. It reminds me of that day every time I wear it. 
5. Favorite Healthy Snack - Popcorn with a honey drizzle. 

Lastly, What's one verse that's stood out to you lately, One Truth that God has been pressing upon your heart.
God always brings me back to Philippians 1:6 where it talks about the Lord not being done working in our lives. I strive to be the best I can in so many areas of my life, it's almost a relief to revisit that verse and be reminded God will continue to work in my life always and that he is not finished pursuing me and teaching me.

Thanks for giving us a little peek into your world! 
Your creations always leave me wanting to see more, and I'm so glad to share what you do with all of my friends here!

Now all you Lovelies must check out Alexandra Joy's website!
her portfolio is filled with loads of pretty pictures!

Have a Happy Wednesday!

Photo Credit

Monday, September 10, 2012

Hubba Hubba

Emerson & Hunter looking dapper in their neatly added attire.
Thanks to this fun app.
It's one of my favorite to play around on.
A few pictures have come in of you beauties who've received your scarves already! 
I can't wait to share all the pictures at the end of this month!
Giving gifts is fun!

Saturday, September 8, 2012

Barefoot in the Kitchen

This is what the majority of my Saturday looked like.
All being used at once. 
Chopping veggies and cooking meat.
Prepping meals for the week to come.
Emerson & Hunter kept me company, sitting in the entry way to the kitchen, talking to me and lending me a hand when I needed someone to hold something ;)
This is what I made/pre-cooked/separated into daily portions today:
*Salad {Cucumber, Bell Pepper, Tomato, Beats, Calamata Olives}
Sweet Apple Chicken Sausages
Hard Boiled Eggs
Sugar Snap Peas
*Baked Garbonzo Beans
*Crock-Pot Chicken 

Most of these things I can pick up and eat on their own without adding anything to them.
Also ready to eat this week are apples, oranges, blueberries and strawberries.
Frozen fruit for smoothies and a couple Lara Bars for an occasional 'treat'. 
Tomatoes, Carrots and Cauliflower are waiting in my refrigerator too.
I need to buy avocados!

I've been realizing more and more how well I work when given boundaries or 'assignments' and tasks.
So if I set out and designate what food I'm 'aloud' to eat each day, that's what I'll eat. Which keeps me eating far healthier than when I just grab something to eat without much awareness to it's content.
And of course! As a busy Mother, having my food all prepped and ready to go saves me loads of time and energy!

Shawn has been away this weekend for work...
He left Thursday and will return tomorrow {Sunday} late night.
As strange as it is not having him around in the evenings or at night sleeping at my side, these last couple days have been rich with God time. 
All these extra hours spent with Him, has been super beneficial for my soul! Like, really really really beneficial!!
- I think I'll blog about what's new in my heart in another post.

Anyway, I'm excited for Shawn to come home, but thankful that the Lord has met me in these day of being on my own.

*Salad- I did this mix last week as well. I can add leafy greens to it, or chicken, or an egg, or none of the above and it's good. Instead of using dressing {have never liked it, even before 'watching what I eat'}, I like adding Calamata Olives as it gives just a little extra flavor without too many calories. I don't even put very many in the mix with all the veggies.
Too, I fried up a little bit of CousCous, maybe 1/4 cup and sprinkled it on top one day and that was also good.

*Baked Garbonzo Beans- I stumbled upon The Boho Glow on instagram the other day and saw this recipe that they'd posted. 
If you are looking for something crunchy to munch on you should try these. They kind of remind me of healthy corn nuts... at first I thought they were somewhat odd honestly, but then I kept on wanting to eat them. I'll definitely throw these in the oven again and make more when I'm done with this little batch.
15oz can of Garbonzo Beans {drained}
1/4 tsp Olive Oil
1/4 tsp Cumin
1/4 tsp Garlic Powder
1/4 tsp Oregano
-Stir all the ingredients together and then place on a baking sheet
{spraying olive oil on the sheet before hand}
Oven at 350* Bake for 50 minutes or until crunchy.
And voila, you have yourself a healthy snack.

*Crock-Pot Chicken- Easiest no brain chicken ever!
All I do is throw two frozen breasts in the crockpot, add a cup of chicken broth or water, and cook on low for 8-10 hours. You can also throw in different seasonings if you'd like {before pouring the liquid on top, sprinkle your seasonings}. Occasionally I'll add a packet of Italian Dressing mix and that adds enough flavor for me when I put it on my 'dressing-less' salads. 
The chicken always turns out perfectly moist and falls apart easily.
It's been a good Saturday. 
Lots of music was played: Jason Mraz, Coldplay, Nick Drake, Maroon 5, Shawn McDonald...
There was a massive thunder and lightning storm right over our apartment! Gosh is was SOOO loud! There was little rain, but lightning bolts and booming thunder danced brilliantly overhead!

Another day has come and gone. 
In a minute, after I tap my finger on the Publish button, I'll move it then across the computer screen to the Netflix button and there I'll press play on the Friday Night Lights screen. 
Sigh... Being away from the Hubs is good I think... Cause the moment I see him next, I plan on wrapping my arms around him and holding on tight! I need to work on showing him more of my love and appreciation for him.
-before he left, I told him that he can show his appreciation for me when he comes home with diamonds or something! lol. Leaving me with 5 month old twins and all! ;) I kid. We've been doing wonderfully. 
But I will definitely have a 'Me Date' on Tuesday night! That's for sure! Monday night Shawn and I will spend together since tomorrow night we wont get to. But Tuesday, I'm taking a break as soon as he comes home from work! 


Thursday, September 6, 2012

Pajama Party

Hanging out with my boys before bed last night.
I took that first picture and then lay down next to them...
Looked over and saw their sweet expressions and thought I should capture a smile or two.
How can you not want to kiss those little lips and hold them so tight?!

This morning as I spoke with the Lord,
an overwhelming sense of gratitude came crashing down upon me.
"Thank You Lord!"
I probably said it 20+ times. Over and over and over again.
"Thank You for blessing me with Emerson & Hunter."
"Thank You for believing in me and trusting that I would do well in taking care of them."
"Thank You for the gifting me with not just 1, but 2 babies."
"Thank You for trusting in me and passing on the responsibility of raising children."
"I will follow You all the days of my life."

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

5 months old

These handsom men of mine are a whopping 5 months old already!

It's true! 5 whole months have gone by!
These little goofs are getting bigger every day.
Some mornings they wake up and I can hardly see the resemblance from yesterday. 
One minute they're itty bitty babies, the next they're almost little boys!

This has seriously, hands down, been the coolest thing I've ever been a part of! 
I couldn't ask for a better life!
"Hunter and Emerson,

The Scarf Swap has officially started.
20 Lovelies for 10 different States are sending scarves to each other 
and I'm super excited to see what everyone gets!
Also, I'll be hosting another swap {different gift} in November!
So stay tuned.

Happy Wife

Monday, September 3, 2012


Emerson is so focused these days.
Figuring out all the tiny details around him.

Hunter never stops moving.
Rolling over and trying to grab at everything.

It's the sweetest thing watching them try to find each others hands to hold.
Even if they're not paying attention to one another, 
their little hands will still reach out to find the others fingers.

Brotherly love grows daily!
Smiles back and forth,
giggles and coos and conversation...
There is a special love forming between my sons,
and I am overwhelmed by the blessing that they are to me.

"Thank You Lord for allowing me to be the Mother of these amazing gentlemen! I feel like the luckiest woman in the world!"

Sunday, September 2, 2012

A Place of Quiet Rest.

Last week, in the wee hours of the morning, after feeding my babies and crawling back into bed I got a funny feeling. It was an uneasy, unsettling feeling... and I realized that I hadn't taken the time to cover their new room in prayer. 
So as I fell back to sleep, I prayed, lifting up my little men and asking that the Lord would fill their sweet abode with His perfect presence.

The next day, before Hunter and Emerson went down for their morning nap, the 3 of us spent 30 minutes filling their room with prayers. We sang songs that declared the love of God and claimed that space as His. "May this place of quiet rest be one filled with comfort, truth, peace and light. May it be a safe haven where all who enter feel relieved of burden and heart ache. May my sons thrive, grow and sleep soundly within the walls of this sanctuary."

I felt so much better knowing that I'd taken the time to act upon my love and prayers for them. I didn't just leave it at a simple conversation with God about keeping them safe and sound, but I spent half an hour purposely speaking words of truth and life into the corner of our home that is theirs. My breath, my voice, my heart was poured out in complete love for the lives that God has entrusted into my care. There, I lifted them back up to Him.  

sigh... Prayer is a powerful thing. 
I've been reading Corrie ten Boom's daily devotional and one of my favorites is this:
-July 29th
"Before the war, I was a watchmaker. When my hand was not steady and I had to do a very exact piece of work on a watch, I would pray, 'Lord Jesus, will you lay Your hand on my hand?' He always did, and our joined hands worked firmly and securely.
Jesus never fails us for a moment.
"And the hand of the Lord was with them... Acts 11:21"
Remind us that You are always with us, Lord. Thank You that even our smallest problems concern You. You answer our slightest need."
Whatever your work is, wouldn't it be amazing to know Gods presence in this way?! As a Mother, this is my daily prayer!! "Lord, live through me! May my actions be as Yours, may my words and my thoughts be as those that would come from You."
My sons need help 24/7! Um, and I'm just a human woman who is definitely inadequate! But Oh Hallelujah! I have help! 'Our joined hands work firmly and securely' to bring stability, love and the proper care to these sweet little boys of mine! {don't mind all the exclamation marks... I just get super excited about the fact that living life doesn't have to be impossible when I have God at my side!}

Friends, I love you! 
Scarf Swap is closed so tomorrow you'll receive an email with where to send some love if you decided to join in! 
If you email me by the morning you can still be included.
Happy Wife

ps... want to read about 
Our 'no beach' Beach Trip!
head on over to
Pink Peony Style
to read about how our weekend getaway.

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Heading into Fall... and Spring.

{from Mondays letter over at Pink Peony Style} 
Oh, the weather is shifting from warm to cool and I woke up this morning wanting nothing else but to curl back up into my comforter and stay there for hours longer.
Socks, sweat pants and cardigan have all been added to the shorts and t-shirt I wore to bed...
Still it's chilly, but my sipping hot coffee is bound to heat things up a bit from the inside.

The turn from one season to the next is always so exciting. Living in Oregon, we have the blessing of experiencing each of the four beautiful seasons. And though some last longer than others, each season is still different than the one before.
Heading into Fall, memories of last year and those before all start to play at the forefront of my mind where images of red, orange, and purple leaves paint the backdrop of days gone by.
Sigh... Toffee nut lattes, the pumpkin patch, rainboots, hats & scarves and staying indoors, cozied up on the couch with a happy book, my best friend and pretty music...
And of course now my world has begun to make memories with two children in tow.

Sitting on our living room floor, with memories fading in and out, a pile of the boys laundry at my side and a few little toys on the other, I'm beginning to feel old. Maybe not old, but aged? Or...
I've lived. Gone from childhood to adolescence, young adult to married, now Mother with babies.
Each of those seasons were marked in and of themselves with mini seasons...
Some were seasons of 'fall', times of letting go, clearing things out in order to make room for a new, fresh and healthy beginning.
There have been seasons of 'winter', where the world seemed to stand still. Times were quiet and comfortable with little cares or worries.
Then seasons of 'spring', with doors of opportunity opening right and left. Where the business of moving to the beat of a brand new drum kept me on my toes with a skip in my step.
And of course seasons of 'summer' have found their way into life as well. These days are marked with blue skies, the song of birds and sunny hues blanketing the world below. Days of thriving, laughing, chasing after passions with a bold heart...

Outside, the weather is taking on the season of Fall.
Inside, inside of me, inside my head and my heart, which move my actions... Here, we are all heading into a time of Spring.
Oh this is bound to be a season that I look back upon as a good one!


listening to Ben Howard-Promise
sitting on my living room floor {I prefer the floor to chairs or couch any day}
wearing athletic pants, ready to move
sipping coffee {same cup lasts me all day...}
praying, running, trusting, falling further into my loving Fathers arms

~Happy Wife

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Scarf Swap

email me at:
Only email me if you are truly interested and will send a scarf!
We don't want anyone left out.
All those participating need to respond by Friday of next week{8.31.12}
& please, new scarves only.

$20 limit
Respond with your name and address by 8.31.12
Hopefully everyone will be receiving a new scarf by the end of September!
Start shopping ladies!

Happy Wife